Getting your ex back is not going to be easy and on top of it if you decide to see a therapist you will be a lot poorer. No therapist has a magic wand that will bring your ex back. The therapist will only ask you to do a few things for which he/she will charge you a hefty fee. Instead of wasting your time and money on a therapist follow these 3 simple tips and get your wayward ex back.
Go back in time
Your ex didn't get up one fine day and leave. Things must have been building up for some time before your ex took the extreme step. Remember the breakup is equally painful for your ex as it is for you and no one would do it unless forced to. So, go back and analyze all that led to the breakup. Try and list the reasons for the bickering and arguments you used to have. List all yours and your ex's past mistakes and make a plan to address them constructively.
Start ironing out your flaws
Now that the inevitable has happened, you should not waste time doing anything else. Start to address all that is within your power to set things right. You can take the help of your close friends and family members. Once you begin to make honest attempts to improve yourself your ex will be pleased when he/she learns about it. Maybe he/she will also embark on a similar exercise. However, iron out your flaws even if you don't see any positive results.
Meet up your ex and apologize
If your ex has got the wind that you are a changed person he/she will willingly agree to meet you. During the meeting do not request your ex to come back. Instead thank him/her for being the catalyst that prompted the change in you. Promise to remain friends and leave. Your ex will have renewed respect for you and will meet you as often as he/she can. Your ex's comfort level will slowly increase. Wait for an opportune moment and ask your ex for another shot at the relationship.